There’s nothing more painful than losing somebody you love and that too over some misunderstanding or petty issues. There’s plenty of love for each one of us in this universe but not everyone is a keeper.
Sometimes, even though we love somebody to the fullest and with the purest of feelings and emotions, we still tend to lose them one day. No matter how much effort we put, things seem to get more chaotic and messier!
The universe is not only a selfless giver but also, a great teacher. Some events happen in our life just for us to learn a lesson from it and it is quite a possibility that you losing your loved one is a way of the universe to tell you to dig deep into yourself and see where you got wrong.
This doesn’t mean that your loss is inevitably permanent. You can get it back! Yes, you heard it right. Not necessarily all losses are permanent. You can have your ex back into your life when you are ready!
If there’s a problem, there ought to be a solution for it! You can manifest your ex back into your life if you still feel he/she is the one for you!
Can You Manifest Somebody Back Into Your Life?
The law of attraction, just like any other law is constantly in action. Knowingly or unknowingly, you are always manifesting. The law of attraction states that like attracts like.
Whatever you are thinking strongly today, will become your reality tomorrow. Without any exception, you will always attract that in your life, what you are putting attention, focus and your energy in and of course, romantic relationships and love are no exceptions either!
To begin with the journey of manifesting your ex back follow these steps!
You need to first remember that there is no alternative to self-love. Before you manifest somebody into your life, you need to have a clear and loving relationship with yourself! Without self-love, you will not be able to get love from anybody else.
You need to be loving and kind to yourself and then be warm and welcoming to the abundance of love you receive from offers.
Clarify, ” why do you want your ex back?”
You need to be clear and convincing to yourself that why do you want him/her back into your life? You should be very conscious of the fact that their presence once again, will actually be beneficial in your life and you aren’t just manifesting your ex back out of loneliness and desperation.
Your manifestation of getting your ex back in your life should be backed by good, positive intentions and not anything bad or negative. If the latter is the case, you will only attract more negativity in your life. So be very cautious and sure of what you are attracting and letting to be a part of your life.
Once you are sure and confident about the fact that you do want your ex back, start by visualisation.
Visualise that you are already back with your ex, happy and satisfied in life. You both are great together and there is no more mess and chaos around you two. You are living happily together and are considerate, kind and respectful towards each other.
Your energy creates your reality. So, always remember that it is your feeling that helps you attract things or people in life. Manifest and visualise what you genuinely need in your life and for that clear the bad air or any negativity in your head.
Preferably, seek for a quiet place to visualise and manifest your ex back.
Put a stop to your limiting beliefs.
After you start visualising, it is normal for you to have doubts and limiting beliefs making rounds in your head. You need to be well aware of them and not let those doubts and negative feelings or thoughts block your energies and stop you from manifesting your ex back!
Limiting and negative beliefs will only constrain your life and do no good. One thing common in all limiting beliefs is that they all are false. They depend on your past experiences and you should always remember that the past is gone.
Done and dusted. You cannot relive your past. So why to attract its negativity even in the present or the future?
Use Love Affirmations.
Once you have gotten a hold on your limiting beliefs, start using affirmations. The best way to affirm is by writing. Maintain a journal or a diary and start writing your love affirmations daily. Be consistent, keep practising and soon you will be able to manifest your ex back into your life in the best way possible!
Affirmations will not only help you get back with your ex (in this case) but will also help you substitute your negative beliefs with the positive ones!
Affirmations are always a win-win situation. They make you feel powerful and more confident about yourself and your life in general.
You can even use suitable affirmations on days when you feel low or lost. They will fill you with power and positivity and help you get through the day in the best possible way!
Let the universe take its course.
Now that you have started manifesting and visualising, relax! Have faith in the power of the universe and trust its course of action. Good things take time. So relax and consistently, keep practising your manifestation. Don’t let anything cause a hindrance or block your energies.
While you manifest your ex back or manifest anything you want in life, always remember that it all begins with a positive thought. Many people mess up at this stage because of their over-controlling nature and will to manipulate their desired outcome.
Will to control the outcome will only inculcate a fearful feeling in you which is yet another negative emotion and will cause interference in your manifestation journey.
Positivity multiplies itself manifolds and so does negativity. You choose what you want! Never let any negativity or negative thought touch you and ruin your manifestation.
Helpful Affirmations To Manifest Your Ex Back
Manifesting is a process and not a one-time thing. If you want something or somebody in your life, you have to be consistent with manifesting and positive thoughts.
It isn’t time-bound and there is no definitive rule for manifestation. You can do it any time of the day and even all the time!
Here are some helpful set of manifestations for you to practice to manifest your ex back:-
Always remember to start by loving yourself and being kind towards yourself!
- I am loved. I am capable of having the best love relationship.
- I open my heart to receive love in abundance and I have full faith and trust that true love will come to me.
- I know and I have full faith that there is somebody out there for me. My soulmate is waiting for me.
- I am capable of drawing love and romance in my life without any difficulty.
- I trust the universe fully and I am sure that the universe will help me find my most suitable match.
- I am ready and now is the time for me to have true love in my life.
- I trust that my intuition will guide me and lead me to where I need to be in life.
- Every day and every experience that I gather with each passing day is getting me closer to my soulmate.
- I am attracting a healthy, loving and respectful relationship in my life.
- I am attracting love and romance into my life and I accept it now.
These affirmations are just guidelines for you to have an easy beginning of the process if you are going it for the first time.
There is no right and wrong affirmation and it all depends on you. What you are looking for and attracting.
You can always modify these above affirmations and even write your own from scratch. You are unique and that’s your strength.
Nobody knows you better than you know yourself and you are the best judge and critic in your life. It is always great to write your own manifestations and lead yourself.
Things To Avoid While Manifesting Your Ex Back
Till now we know what we need to do while manifesting our ex back but here are some things that would be better avoided in the process.
It’s always good to strike a healthy balance in life and not come off as a desperate, greedy being.
Desperation is concluded to be negative and is capable of obstructing the power of your manifestation.
The best way to lead a healthy, satisfied and good life, is to keep working hard and making your due efforts and being patient for the results!
Here are a few things you should completely avoid while manifesting your ex back:-
- Do not call them or message them. Let them find their way to you. Always remember, the universe will only give you what you need and will never satisfy your greed. If it’s meant to be, it’ll be yours and nobody can take it away from you.
- Do not force anything. Let things fall into their place over time.
- Don’t take any desperate actions. Always think hard before you act.
- Never be unkind or cruel yourself and do not make yourself feel guilty losing anything or anybody. Always love yourself and treat yourself right.
- Do not doubt the universe and its power.
- Do not create any sort of doubt in your head regarding your worth or ability.
The Subliminal Programming
This technique is yet another extremely helpful technique and speeds up the process of manifesting. This technique fills your mind with positivity and inhibits your mind from thinking negative.
A subliminal message also called a hidden message, is one that is designed to pass below the normal limits of perception. They work directly on your subconscious mind and our subconscious mind plays a crucial role in the process of manifestation.
This is a powerful technique and fills your mind with positive thoughts. By changing your subconscious beliefs you will change what you attract in life.
This type of programming will not come easily to you at first, as it is a skill that requires practice and consistency.
At the beginning of the process, you might feel a wave of negative thoughts coming in your head which might make you uncomfortable and restless.
But remember, before accommodating something new, you have to get rid of the old, unwanted stuff. Similarly, to train your brain to only think positive, first, you need to get rid of all those negative, underlying thoughts and thought patterns.
Once you achieve this, your subconscious beliefs will change your vibration level and will help you become more aligned with your desire.
The Final Verdict
The universe is the greatest wish-granting well and it is said so for a reason.
- It is selfless in granting and makes dreams of people come true.
- It is like a deep well where the number of wishes coming true is unlimited. There’s no limit for anybody and its resources don’t get exhausted.
You get what you want, all you need to be is confident, clear and sure enough and have faith in yourself and your dreams.
There’s nobody in this world who can stop you if you are determined in achieving your goals and have faith in yourself.
You will be unshakable and unstoppable if you make up your mind and believe in yourself and the universe. Harness the power of the law of attraction to manifest exactly what you want in your life.
On the concluding note, yes you can attract your ex back into your life and have a loving and caring relationship with them like you always wanted with the help of the law of attraction.
You will get what you “willed” for and this is true in every case and every wish. Always remember to be kind and loving towards your own self before you go on in the search for it in others.
I hope you are able to get what you want in life and this article helps you manifest your ex back.
“Let true love find you” and fill your life with immense happiness, care and kindness!